Amanda44 wrote:Jazminekhan wrote:Amanda44 wrote:Six of one, half a dozen of the other - honestly, what is wrong with the forums lately?!
You should all be ashamed, picking on someones personal appearance is bound to get some unpleasant replies and Jazmine, wow, you went way overboard! As Thijssnl says - it hardly matters who started it - and imo, none of you look good.
What a disappointment!
Looks like my pearls will be going elsewhere. (yes, pearls - finaly had some luck!)
I would like to personally apologize to you. i was so looking forward to your business... I am sorry that you had to see this.
Good day
I appreciate the apology, tbh I was starting to think that maybe I had been a little harsh and that your argument with someone else, who was also rude and cruel, shouldn't really affect your business, we've all said things out of anger at some point in our lives that we regret and like you say, it's not like you can take it back.
However ............... I then went on to read your opening paragraph, lol, i'm sorry to say it didn't help, although you insist you are sorry for what was said, you don't really come across that way, to me it seems blasé, dismissive and aggressive, a more humble approach might have done you some favours in re-establishing a clientele but, for me at least, as it stands alongside what has happened, it just makes me wary.
I'm sorry this has happened to you and your idea is still an excellent one, it would be a shame if it fell by the wayside. I hope you can recover from this and are able to maintain it, but for me personally, you have only increased my concerns.
I wish you good luck though Jazmine.
To be honest i did several edits to it... In the beginning i was purely begging for forgiveness and then i changed it to show i am sorry and understand what i did (which i do) but to be honest in the end. im only saying that to keep business up.
Honestly though, i do feel sorry for my actions. but even more sorry they had to be publicized.
I will happilly get mad at someone for pissing me off and yeah sure i'll start a fight too. Does that mean it needs to be public? NO.
Does that mean clients should care how i act behind closed doors? NO. And to be honest. what does that chat have to do with my clients and how does it affect them.
To clarify the situation. i had a fresh bear. i said "hey i know you make free bearcapes. can ya make me one?" She said sure and i got frustrated in the miscommunication when it came to the oathing because it took a really long time for raven to send the messages to me. And when informed that she was not the CT and that is was somoene i already knew on my friendslist who had been on for a while is said "fucker i coulda done this soo long ago" [word for word] and then the fights commenced.
I did not fuck with any trades, i did not break the sacred trading rules. and i did not [physically] hurt somebody.
Like i keep on repeating over and over again. The fact that this went public was a bitch move on Caz's part. And i wont hold her to it because i understand at the time she was probably preeeeety pissed. i was to. Either way. Anyone interested in my services shouldnt care whether or not im a bitch to other people who i dont like and who you probably dont know. You should care about whether i am kind and respectful of YOU. which i am. No matter who you are, if you're a paying customer, you will be treated with the utmost respect.
Just because i have a Trucker mouth and occasionally like to start fights doesnt mean anything besides the fact that im strong and can stick up for myself. And has anger issues...
Either way, amanda, thanks for your time. sorry to waste it.