On both Pacho and gilbertus ...both 32 bit and 64 (yes I am shooting in the dark at this point) I have tried these changes:
java -Xms256 -Xmx512m -jar haven.jar moltke.seatribe.se
Then
java -Xms256 -Xmx512m -jar have.jar -d moltke.seatribe.se
I went to the gilbertus forum and tried to follow the instructions but the path he gives
"C:\Program Files (x86)\Java\jre6\bin\java" -Djava.library.path="C:\Games\Haven and Hearth" -Xms256m -Xmx512m -jar haven.jar sh.seatribe.se
(I know change to moltke) does not exist..I can only find up to \java\jre6\bin...there is no java and I have no idea what -djava.library.path means.
as a side not both 32 bit versions get to the log in screen where I get a message in red stating connection refused: connect
but neither 64 bit versions will do anything even though on the java website it tells me I am running 64-bit Java.
So far I can get in fine from the play button online.
any help?
Thanks.