Well, a bottle of smirnoff and a really tight...

Oh you mean in the game...
Humm, well, according to the powers that be, you take nothing seriously, it's just a hobby. Try to find a goal or collection of goals you enjoy. Then go for it. Try not to waste too much time or get too involved as they say it is "just alpha" and therefore very frustrating with the mechanics and expliots and the kind of crowd that attracks. You can find a great deal to work towards and will invariably enjoy yourself which however can get you too involved in said work when a greifer comes along. Since they have a gazillioin advantage there's a few things you can do, but nothing really to thwart them IF they are serious about their destruction. So invest little and it will hurt less... so to speak. Still you can have some fun and take basic steps to try to realize some portion of your goals...just keep it in perspective and you'll be alright.