I've noticed 'lag' threads are starting to crop up again so this is for the new players and those returing after a long absence, saves everyone getting irritated with you asking the same thing over and over.

Anyone who can still play regularly must have incredible amounts of patience! I've more or less given up, it's just way too frustrating.
I still log on to check my walls though - would be raiders, lol, I'm still not ready to let it all go just yet.
