But then, along game some ppl (3 so far) who all basically said the same thing.
??? "Hi"
Me: Hi
???: Where u from?
Me: US
???: Got metal?
Me: Nope, just a newb learning my way around.

???: You die
Me: Why?
???: Cuz
Me: Whyever would you want to kill a newbie? I can't possibly have anything of value you want?
(It was about at this point the third guy started shooting at me)
Me: Please don't kill me, I'm just trying to learn the ropes of the game and it would be really annoying.
???: Okay, I not kill you now.*
*Note: Only one actually engaged me and started attacking, but I suspect all 3 were either the same person or working together because they all asked the bit about where I was from and if I had metal.
Anyway, I decided its probably time to start working on a palisade - however, as some of you may remember from long ago when you were newbies ;D, palisades, while doable, are a lot of resources for a lone newbie and going to take me a bit to build, so I'm hoping to find a village to friend myself to for a little protection and possible trade in the future?
Also, could someone explain how in the world I "FIND" other villages and where I am in relationship to them on the map. I mean even if someone friends me at this point - how do I find them or travel to them?
and finally
Is it possible to keep my little homestead and still be friends with an actual village without having to move? (NOTE: I do not have or am I anywhere near having the ability to create an actual village (lawspeaking and charisma aren't real high on my list of attributes/skills to invest in right now

It's the one area that confuses me the most - how I figure out just where my homestead is on the greater world map and how I find other villages in relationship to where I am....
Thanks in advance for any advice/help. (Sorry so long-winded - figured I'd just ask all my questions in one, long post since they were all sorta related)
Ari