After perusing the forums for a few days, it seems all the guides for newbies suggest that you NEVER EVER keep the key on your main character. I see that this is because if you die, you'll have no key to the gate. The solution presented is to keep an alternate character that's only purpose is to open/close the gate. However, there are a few problems I have with this:
1. My computer can't handle having two clients open, even if one is just idling by the gate.
2. If I were to avoid this by only using one client, the gate could potentially be open for an entire minute with me switching characters to open/close it, which poses too great a risk for the frequency with which I tend to leave my little area.
Could anyone offer a safe way to be able to enter/leave my little area frequently without the use of a key alt?