I know its really frustrating, but I was killed x2 and raided x3 (had to start from scratch x3). Best thing you can do, especially so early on, is just start out to find a new pclaim spot and set up shop again.

It can be fun!
And don't be stupid like me - I set up my newest claim/village and didn't check for a) clay node, b) q water node or c) q dirt node *slaps forehead with hand* - DOH!
Good luck and just set out to start fresh. Trust me, its worth and as new player, I learned something new about the game each time.
G