Well Burg, hate to burst your bubble, but I am not sore in the least about anything. The real soreness and sadness should come on your part, because you have traitors within your group and you are just too blind to know it. I really love this game!! My degree is in Sociology and I find it very interesting to see how people lie, cheat, steal, and whatever else is necessary to justify, most often ill fated gains. The most amusing thing here above all, is that you only destroyed a village (Kiri) which is only a thing, but you did not destroy the people. The are continuing as always and laughing at your noobish attempt to raid a village. I have given you one of the best pieces of advice you can ever receive, you need to look deep within your group, and their lies your real issue.
Quote: What you don't confront, will eat you alive