Download 32 Bit Windows Version:http://www.mediafire.com/download.php?ev6otmuzuajqbtq
make folder in C:\Program Files named Haven and Hearth - move the downloaded zip file in there
extract (unzip/unpack) it so that you have the run.bat in the root of that folder ( there should be 3 folders and 10 files plus the zip file)
then you open the run.bat with Notepad Editor (!not Wordpad) and edit the way you need it (see above)
Make sure you have the latest Jave Runtime Environment installed: XP 32 http://javadl.sun.com/webapps/download/AutoDL?BundleId=48343
check Java Installation: http://www.java.com/de/download/installed.jsp