ValerieHallaway wrote:
Emerald. I hope you don't mind that I took over.
It's totally not about 'she should feel complimented' that would be kinda weird and I would have to question Thash's motives, but if you've ever 'met' a guy on the internet, you'd want to make sure he didn't look like a total creeper before you went further, am I right? And if he looks like a fine upstanding guy, then woohoo! Nice catch!
Guys have.. a similar process? But it's really really simple. "Does he have beer? Will he share it with me?" "Is she hot? Would she consider going out with me?"
I totally get everything you're saying Emerald, but if she doesn't want people to google her, she should probably make the information hidden.
honestly valerie, ive seen your posts and harrys, and i always thought u were great, and was actually happy in finding out its you guys who were in charge of bearchanicus, and ultimately thats why i pushed to get your villagers hs, and talk to them and add them on skype, and thash always spoke highly of you guys she enjoyed your company.
and maybe we're jsut different, but i honestly dont wonder what a guy looks like ingame, sure it often comes to asking, which is fine, i dont care if someone see's my pic and i know thash doesnt, which is why we both had them in our profiles. u want to make a nice comment, go ahead, i doubt shed had been freaked by him or anyone else telling her she looks cute from her profile pic.
i guess it really comes down to trust, she doesnt have anything to hide, it was simply the act of going behind her back to find info on her and the variety of stories we had about it and general bullshit tbh.
i'm sorry it lead to this, or your guys quitting. take care valerie and i appreciate you stepping in