It's because of children like you that I don't talk to people. I had a similar thing happen to me yesterday.
- Russian kid shows up on my shore (yes I'm next to a river. Thought I'd set myself challenging gameplay)
- someone steals his boat.
- he asks to take my only one, promising to return it in 2 mins.
- I say no.
- he cuts down all my trees and taunts me with obscenities.
- he wanders off.
- later, I find a second boat. I pm him that it's on my coast and that he can have it, unclaimed, if he wants to come fetch it.
- he continues obscenities at me.
True asshole, and you sound just like him. Not saying you are him, but nobody is going to "LOL YOU'RE SO COOL FOR TROLLING THESE GUYS LOLOL" at you for what you're doing, people will just label you as a butthurt 11 year ill and avoid you.