I think the people that got their village raided are pathetic, if someone raids your village pick up and start again. As for the raiders i think they did a good job, they used bluedot to get into your village raided it and then killed bluedot(ruthless yes, but still).
Yes they probably have all your stuff but at least they killed bluedot and are offering to give your keys back, if you believe they copied the keys move out of there or take your chances.
If you wanted help to take down the raiders (which i doubt you would have got) you could have just asked someone who wanted a good fight.
What someone said earlier, you two sound like a villagers worst nightmare to share a village with.
So because of the above reasons i have no sympathy for you.