I'm posting this just for the record and because I like keeping a history of things from my perspective.
Here's how I met Belletor on April 24th at 11:05 PM MST (Vigilance can confirm from Skype logs between me and him). I was chieftain at the time. Someone on the lot south of mine asked me to addkin and oath Belletor. So I followed normal procedure and did so. He was only one out of about 30 people I had oathed procedurally that night.
As soon as I oath him over, he brings a boat with 2 small chests and tells me to take whatever I want from them. So I took about 20 teddy bears and some various q200ish seeds. Since I had better q crops offsite, I decided I would just plant these seeds and end up softcapping them. Over the next 2 weeks I studied a few of the teddy bears.
I soon forgot all about Belletor as I only saw him that one time. I am not very good with names and I had kinned some 100+ people over the last couple weeks. This afternoon I read on skype that Belletor had taken 20 teddy bears from Melsonia. I don't know the circumstances of how he took them, except that I remember that at the time when he gave them to me, he said something about no one else wanting them at his village. I also remember being a bit suspicious of such a generous giveaway, and I remember asking if they were scented and he said no. Well anyway, when I read about the teddies today, it sparked my memory and I realized that they were the same ones in my cupboard. And I learned that Fobia came to attack in part because they (and other items) had been taken.
Today I returned all of the remaining teddies (about 16) to Fobia. I haven't had much other relation with him, but I would like to see him make a new character in Brodgar and join the fun.

-Gilbert