@amanda,
jeez, thought i had told you more than once that i need no apology on these things?! dont throw it at me please.
no matter what my intention was or how one interprets it, he replies when he thinks he is justified enough, and he doesnt when he thinks he isnt and there is nothing good to say or just dont care. and i interpret the reaction as i like, just as he does.
@MinerJoe,
thanks a lot for your detailed answer!