I'm kinda new to the game.. been in an hiatus of 1 year or so.. then I got back.. didn't have anything .. had to restart from zero
Then I read a post from infectedking.. something like "if noobs wanted something I'd help" or something along the lines.. then I PM'ed him.. and he really was willing to help .. nice guy.. talked to me a bit.. then invited me to join a village.. and another person (char called Mandy) came to talk to me.. we talked for a bit.. I decided to try out the village and see what happens.. he/she said we didn't need to bring anything (me and my friend are playing together) but we still took the little we had (we had just started producing steel.. silk.. and few other things.. along with q400 seeds/crops that some korean guy gave us) and moved in.. but as soon as I got there.. I felt I lost my freedom.. so I went to talk to Mandy again.. and he/she just kicked me out without any warning.. now I'm lost in the wilderness with no way back home.. and I don't have shit for things.. and he/she is still accusing me from stealing whatever I haven't .. since I didn't even have the time to think about it..
So thats it.. new people.. be careful when joining villages.. they might seem to be a good opportunity to improve.. but sometimes they will just kick you in the nuts and leave you naked in the woods..