Looking for Very Friendly Individuals(Title updated)

[Ukimi]

This title is how I figured describes what I've been doing here and there since a while back. I've started playing Haven a long time ago, loved it, but never stayed active for long.

Among other reasons, they were the PvP focus of the game since I dislike PvP; Find it just to be a way to troll people and never EVER seen "friendly pvp" despite some people mentioning it....and the lack of truly friendly individuals. To be friendly, you don't have to be helpful IMO. However, you have to be, well, friendly. Not just rush you to do stuff but actually say "hello" "how are you" and actually care about whatever happens to you.

Most people I've seen in the game so far, were people that either care about their stuff, or the village progress, or even safety. But I've never found a single individual yet that 1. Lives in a safe area, or at least doesn't get raided often due to treaties or whatever reason; 2. Is truly friendly as explained above; 3. Does not try to progress ASAP due to fear of dying. I mean, it's fine to want progress, but when that makes you be unfriendly to other people, IMO that's not cool.

So what I'm looking for is a very friendly individual which used common sense when finding a place or didn't find a place yet. It doesn't matter if you live in a shack or a fortress as long as you're friendly enough and not afraid enough of dying to become unfriendly.

After all, while this game is about surviving, death is a factor that exists for a reason. I think people should not jump towards death, but they should not stop enjoying the game due to fear of dying.

At any rate, hope to find a few friendly enough people with this post.

Take care, and enjoy the game for what it is

[Zachary09]

You should probably look for a friendly village instead. As you stated, there are not many friendly individuals as you describe them in your post. They mostly exist but have learned on their mistakes and keep their mouth shut during foraging or hunting, so nobody can spot you that fast.

[shampizle]

http://www.havenandhearth.com/forum/viewtopic.php?f=36&t=35152
Apply above always looking for friendly villagers =P

[Zachary09]

Not so friendly if one breakage of the rule makes u ded

[Ukimi]

Not so friendly if one breakage of the rule makes u ded

So true. Not that I couldn't follow the rules, but I don't want to join a village which kills whoever can't.

Anyway, still looking for a friendly individual. I understand a village *might* be easier to find, but I doubt I'll find a village that is as friendly as some individuals can be.

[shampizle]

then u need to change ur post to

"Looking for a village that doesn't care if anyone steals your shit" and u get a spanking if you dont follow rules.

my rules are easy to follow and from the sounds of it probably not even 18 yrs old older

[Denkar]

Sounds like you're just looking for someone to babysit you.

[Nephiros]

they want a single person to play with, say hi and talk to everyday that doesn't try and stab them in the back. is it really that difficult of a concept?

[Caryl]

Its really hard to find a good and fun village or person to play with in H&H. Most people will have rules that you either have to follow or not and suffer the consequences. You should just play as a hermit for now. I've met several hermits during my first few days in H&H on March and they were all friendly people. If you really want a village to play with or person, I suggest you just wait a bit.

[Ukimi]

Its really hard to find a good and fun village or person to play with in H&H. Most people will have rules that you either have to follow or not and suffer the consequences. You should just play as a hermit for now. I've met several hermits during my first few days in H&H on March and they were all friendly people. If you really want a village to play with or person, I suggest you just wait a bit.

Well, thing is. I want a friendly individual or village, due to disliking playing games as a hermit/soloer. So unfortunately that isn't an option for me yet. Besides, I might have found an individual now. Haven't seen him ingame yet, but hopefully it's someone friendly enough.

And Denkar/shampizle. I said clearly that while I *could* follow rules like that, I'm not really expecting anything friendly from people who'd kill permanently anyone who does any infractions whatsoever.

Then just because I'm not interested, you come on my thread saying I want baby-sitting or someone who doesn't care if I steal their stuff?

God, how childish can you be? All I've said is, that kind of spartan approach to rules and friendliness don't seem too close together to me.

I could easily join you, not do anything wrong etc, but after reading your thread it doesn't seem like the kind of village which would be friendly to eachother. More like a village where everyone is cautious of eachother and tries their best not to be stabbed in their backs. I don't want such a village, therefore I'm not joining.

Now stop with the childish accusations and please, if you're not here to be friendly, you may as well not say a word.