when I open up auto haven the game does not even start and I get a error message saying "unable to load resource :http://www.havenandhearth.com/java/haven-res.jnlp" Any help would be greatly appreciated.
something on your side is blocking - the resource download itself is working
check routersettings for port forwarding enabled - needed Ports: 1870 UPD and 1871 TCP
in Java Control Panel - General Tab - Network settings you might try with "direct connection" also
Avatar by SacreDoom Java 8 - manually downloads - good to check for actual versions url here: viewtopic.php?f=42&t=40331 Remember what the dormouse said: Feed your head Feed your head