... is Jorb & Loftar's crazy updates?
No.
... is things like auto-hearth?
Nope.
... are the Larpers! I know it!
Not at all.
So what ruins this game?
People wouldn't avoid PVP and such if things were fair. And what contributes for things not being fair?
This. This is what ruins this game -
If you don't get it, this is a bot. We've watched it stupidly harvest everything, going back and forth from its reference point (the paved tile in the middle) before going back to its resting position, waiting for new crops to grow. I do not blame the automatons, but the people that use it.
As long as this is permitted, there will never truly be balance, there will never be any reason for sane, honest people to face someone that gets everything done the easy way and need only to focus on being overwhelmingly strong.
As a bunch of noobs looking for a home, we couldn't do anything else except deliver noob justice:
But if you too think that Bots are one of the problems behind Haven's... instability, feel free to travel East, slightly north, around 1,5~2 hours from Spawn and look for the village of Erebus.
They have several bots working their asses there so they can get strong, kill noobs and say they're awesome.