My question is what is my best path to be self sustaining as far as food, right now its about fish.
Food variety is important. The more different foods you eat the faster your stats will level up. Here are some other foods available to you:
1. Ants. Even if you have no fighting skill you can trick ants though it is dangerous. Wait next to an anthill until none of the guards are near you, then start to raid it and run away. Lead the ants away for a while, then run back, raid the anthill for real while they're catching up to you, and run again until they give up pursuit. Some ants are edible, others are both edible and excellent curios!
2. Chickens. Prairie areas (brownish on the map but green in reality) often have clusters of chickens. Just pick them up and strangle them.
3. Forage. Early exploration will give you blueberries and chantrelles.
I have made my fence, I can build a house, I am a yeoman, maybe too soon , exploration is at 7 and survival is at 8 with my clothes.
These are all good, Yeomanry lets you actually hold on to what you gather and exploration and survival are the best skills early on. If you get 5-10 Unarmed skill you can also fight ants toe to toe instead of tricking them.
I have tried to read and make sense of things like FEP's but decided to just eat when I was hungry(i guess I am a dumbass)
Short version of FEPS:
Eating food gives you food event points (like experience points for stats), when your FEP bar fills up, you gain a stat semi-randomly (and influenced by the type of foods you were eating.. carrots are good for perception etc). The more DIFFERENT foods you eat within a FEP bar the faster it fills. The higher your highest stat is, the harder the FEP bar is to fill, so try to raise a variety of stats instead of ending up with like 50 INT and 10 everything else. Don't be frustrated if a few stats lag behind, that's just life unless you're in an advanced village. If you make a table and chair and cutlery for yourself you'll get a few nice bonuses to FEPS too but don't stress that.
and I have built all curiosities and studied them when they came available( still do not understand lp's vs xp)
Ignore XP completely. It won't be an issue for you. LP is what you want.
I would like to become some kind of tough guy with a compound and am dead tired of walking around and trying to remember if that is a new fucking plant or not. I am not interested in killing others, I would like to be able to hunt and build a stronghold and pvp when attacked. Can I get some guidance on what to do next besides chop a tree or walk around?
IMO your next step is to raise EXPLORATION and PERCEPTION enough to gather Wild Windsown Weeds. Dry them on a drying rack, and they will eventually turn into seeds. Plow and plant them to make a farm. This will be a great long term source of food and help you a lot.
If you want more advice or want my alt to come live with you (her camp is a mess) PM me.