Dieing isn't that bad anymore anyway , especially with kingdom burial.
I"ve stopped personally when I died totally drunk 1y ago but it was more an excuse than anything else.
I was playing too much and starting to get bored anyway ( maybe burnout?).
I'm sure there are plenty of person like me.
Coming back in hnh isn't easy , especially when you're so behind , the world semi abandonned.
You don't have that feeling of exploring and conquering a new world , starting from scratch , it's less exciting.
HnH requires a ton of time and effort , I can understand to not want to commit that hard without the perfect conditions.
That being said , I came back 1 months ago or smthing , doing quite good and obviously play way too much :p
I know it might shock some of you but the motivation of these persons is probably not as black and white as you seem to think.