I don't get it. Why would you want this? Boats don't spontaneously explode.
(EDIT) I forgot about deep ocean. There's a solution to this thought: Don't go in deep ocean with a rowboat.
Swimming across rivers is actually not that dangerous. You can do it with con 10 provided you have full stamina and don't intentionally choose the river's widest point. Once you gain access to things like walrus boots/cape and seal pants, or the fisher and pearl diver credos, water presents absolutely no obstacle even without access to the ferryman ring.
You're asking for yet another item that increases your swimming? I don't get it.
havenman says:
palm trees and coconut juice, suntans are important, other mental nonsense
I'm not even going to address this mental post but I think you're confused of the setting of Haven and Hearth.