I for myself stick to pointing out flaws in current systems or suggesting minor additions, because those are more helpful/more likely to get implemented anyway. You will never see your own combat or ancestorial system in h&h, neither are you entitled to any form of reaction from the devs. To not get disappointed I would rather cling to pointing out flaws and bugs and otherwise enjoy playing over acting like a dev

Edit: This is not directed primarily towards you deadlypencil, more a thing that often strikes me as odd.