I'm new to the game, just built my first house, but I died to some high level griefer and I don't want to invest any more time into HnH. Anyways, thought I'd share my noob oppinion ^^
The idea of permadeath sounded cool when I first started playing HnH, because it's unique, but in reality its a shitty concept imo. Permadeath stopped me from socializing with anyone in-game and made me scared to try out the combat system. The one time I did talk to someone, he killed me. It's sad because what I enjoy about the game is the crafting system and planning out what I am going to do next. I was really starting to get into the game too! Buuuuut yeah now I'm dead and the game doesn't have enough to do for me to want to spend another week getting all of my skills back when I'll likely just get killed again.
I'm you sure you get a lot of death-rage-qq-quitters on the forums. Hopefully I don't sound like that ^^ Having permadeath is a cool little niche, but I strongly feel that HnH would be a better game without it, and the fact that this forum thread exists tells me it's not just me that feels this way.