I presume you were setting up on the edge of a river, on the bordering edge of a nearby village or walled encampment.. If not then you're merely getting unfortunate spawns as I myself in my long time in the Hearthlands have never actually encountered an issue similar to this most likely because of the precautions I take. If you're going to set-up you want to ensure that you prioritise safety of the location over the quantity/quality of local resources.. You can't really gain anything from valuable materials if you aren't alive to harvest them, which is also why rivers aren't a good choice of settling beside as anyone (even myself from time to time) will have a peek at what you've got hidden in those baskets.
Haven & Hearth has my favourite community out of every game I've played purely for the various political and social interactions between different communities within the game community that can be found throughout the world, these "trolls/griefers" that you mention are merely the minority of players, a player who seeks to do nothing but ruin the enjoyment of another player for no gain whatsoever is a troll/griefer.. Someone who ends up harming you in-order to gain a particular resource that benefits them however is a raider, doing it for their own survival in-order to get by in the best way they know how-to or like-to, which is at the end of the day their play style and I respect, H&H is essentially it's own ecosystem which is incredibly important to the core fundamentals of the game itself.
The changes that you bring forward would change the core fundamentals to the point where it would no-longer be the game that I'd say a large portion of the current community currently are here for, you reference protection systems as to those found in Salem but you don't provide any constructive insight as to why it would benefit the game other than to make your experience easier at the expense of the core fundamentals that make Haven & Hearth separate from the vast majority of sandbox titles out there on the market today, what precisely is the reason that you chose to play Haven & Hearth over Salem if you find no enjoyment in the game after two days? Clearly it isn't the game for you, and that's fine as we all have a different taste.
Also I'd advise re-structuring your post if you wished to present the idea in a stronger light, in it's current form it's presented as a rather angered complaint rather than a constructive suggestion, especially with the cheap crack at the vast majority of the playerbase by labelling us as having "no life" for enjoying a game that you don't, and that'd you'd be laughing, which contradicts your argument of not actually caring in the first place.
And I'd lay off him in regards to any spelling/grammatical errors.. Not everyone is a native English speaker, I'm prone to a few errors myself. Back on-topic however.. If you do decide to give Haven & Hearth another shot feel free to send me a PM with any question that you have about the game, or anything you'd like to learn about it and I'd be happy to provide you with any of the knowledge that I've collected over my years of lurking within the community.