SO yes, after creating a new character, and trying ot move to my friends village, i finally realised how hard it was for newbies to actually destroy their own hearth fire.
IM asking one thing, and one thing only, please make your own hearth fire easier to destroy for yourself.
I've been stuck here, and ive wasted 1000% stamina and only hit the hearth ONCE
You can probably understand my misery.