Karede wrote:Ogrimm wrote:Privacy maybe? i dont accept the kin from people i just met, its a trust thingy, anyway i just want to make clear that the other senttlements around them had nothing to do with this, so please we dont want to get involved in some odd revenge
That's nonsensical
It's much safer to be able to have a chat with them later once you're both cowering behind your walls
Maybe he didn't want some stranger have notices of him goes on/offline?..