Voideka wrote:See, this is the problem I have. J/L listen to you guys the most, and most of what you say involves praising things or trying to shut everyone up who disagrees with you. I really wish they would tell you lot to stop being dicks.
Voideka, I don't go around trying to shut up people who disagree with me. Go back and read my posts if you like. Sometimes I get sarcastic when people post stupid requests, like the Dawgster, but thats about it. What gets my goat is this:
Voideka wrote:Well I know they won't really listen to anyone asking them to take it out, so I don't bother doing that sort of thing any more... most of the players here just say yes to everything, since that's who J/L seem to listen to the most.
That's basically translatable as: 'I don't bother saying anything anymore, because it what I say doesn't matter, the 'they', the in crowd J&L cheer squad, decide the agenda.' That's BS man. Give a reason for your opinion, and if people disagree with you, suck it up.
I knew a person once whose response to having her own opinions disagreed with was 'you guys don't listen to me', or 'whats the point in talking anyway if you don't listen'. The thing is we did listen, and then gave reasons why we disagreed. Her real problem was that she didn't get her way, hence the conversation was in some way 'biased' or 'not fair'. That's not how it works. You said yourself that 'most people' say yes, maybe that's because they actually like the way the game is going? If you disagree, then give reasons why, and engage in debate. You can't just say 'you're all disagreeing with me because your just a bunch of yes men'. That's exactly the kind of BS discrediting of another persons position that you say is being perpetrated against you.