Maiden wrote:Amanda44 wrote:Jackard wrote:How very kind, understanding and fanciful~! What exactly are you basing this off of?
What I do at the start of every world, which would be 3 now.
And, I am kind and understanding, which is probably why I waste my time trying to give you possibilities rather than problems.
You are being incredibly naive.
And you are being incredibly short sighted, the fact that you don't want to start the world that way doesn't mean it's not possible, in what way am I being naive? I have hermited for three worlds now, how do you think I start every world? I am not speaking from lack of experience!
Yes, I may have put a 'cheerful, happy' vibe on it but that is how every world starts for me and maybe I was actually trying to encourage those of you not used to starting out alone so you wouldn't see it as such a major set-back.
I have not said everyone you meet is suddenly going to be friendly and helpful and you will form a village together and live happily ever after, on the other hand I have always found the initial couple of days the best time to get talking to those who have spawned around you, everyone is in the same boat and they are more open and receptive. In W6 I formed my village, unawares, beneath AD, I met lots of them in the early days and every single one helped, the very first guy giving me nettle and telling me it would raise my survival, which ofc I knew but this is how the first few days are. Do you know when they finally attacked me? Months later when I had two b/walls and a mining operation, lol, - it turned out alright and after that Koya was a good neighbour to have tbh.
Karede wrote:She's not talking about setting up a village with random people, just surviving alone initially until you can meet up with the people you normally play with
Maybe because you haven't played this way in so long you have forgotten what it's like, or maybe I have better people skills than you or maybe I'm just adept at surviving on my own and don't have the same fears you have, but as I've done it successfully for three worlds now, still speak to the ppl I met in my first world, (hi Lois, hi strpk0) and work hard at being a hermit and having a friendly community around me I am offended by your comment.
This world I managed to unite an AD allied village who was killing everyone in the area, (including trying very hard to get rid of me) a polish village and some smaller settlements to form a lovely area, we shared ore, water, soil and clay resources, it stayed that way until players left, moved on or joined up with bigger villages, so please, I'm not naive, the problem here is that you are upset at not being able to start out with your friends and have gone into panic mode.