you know whats funny as soon as i gave up looking for metal, for people to trade with, metal founld me.
I had just moved far away where i was spawned, tired of being robed and attacked for no reason. i move to a place where there was no sign of people and many caves close by. I thought i would be a true hermit and never meet other person and probley never have metal and i was ok with that because i would rather not have metal and live than try to find someone to trade with and be murdered for laughs and giggles. a few weeks later i started to see animal bones around my claim that i did not kill. day after day i would find bones. i was a little nervous was this someone wanting to kill me? should i move again? no i was not moveing i liked it there and i was not runing because of a what if. yes i was paranoid but wouldn't you feel the same way if almost everyone you met tried to a kill you or b rob and steal from you? when i finely met the person hunting arould my claim all he wanted was to trade and he showed me how to tame because i could not figure it out. a few weeks later i was out hunting and i met someone and i showed him how to tame. about a week later he gave me 3 bars of metal for free as a gift. yesterday a friend of the guy who gave me the free bars told me if i wanted he would give me some high q seeds for free. I'm happy.
im still a hermit but not the way i thought i would be. i am vary grateful to all the people how showed me that not everyone who plays this game is an ass.