Jason, you seem to be more appreciating of this game then much more higher level players. Just one thing, if you die, do not rage quit, just start over and treat it as a fresh start.
Keep up your attitude like this, and the forum will have no problem helping you, just remember not to ask any questions that cannot be answered by the wiki, (something like, what skill do I need for building a house, just look up a house and see what skills it requires). Also, I've never had problems with enemy griefers, if you keep to yourself and be nice to the people you meet, you shouldn't have much of a chance to get griefed. The worst thing that could happen to you, or any noob is theft. In that case, find out how the got in, and prevent it (make a palisade, etc.)
Also, here are some beginning tips. Get yeomanry and claim your place fast. Build a palisade. Hide valuable stuff behind a rock if you don't have a claim, for at least a bit of protection. Finally, if you see a term you are confused about, refer to the wiki.
YeomanryStake ClaimPalisadeTimber HouseFarmingForagingHuntingScentsThose are a few basic topics to help you out