Equal=/=Same.
Yeah, sorry, I forgot to explain what do I mean by "equal". People can never be same and always will be (and should be) treaten differently. But they should not be prejudged. Extremely simplified: I can say "this woman is stupid" and treat her accordingly after we had a conversation, but I can't say "she is probably stupid, because she is a woman", before I even talk to her.
"Created equal" means BORN equal. Equal opportunity to prove yourself. When you prove yourself worthless, it's not equality to treat you like the princess you aren't.
Just this.
I believe all the "you" in your post were for some abstract woman/feminist. Because it really has nothing to do with me personally, my views or my post (now for sure with "equality" explaned).