Lets put a face to the names.

[painhertz]

Old man Pain done fixed the situation.... Now you all stop fretting so!

[Potjeh]

Getting laid boosts my self esteem more than anything else, but I guess it's different for women.

[painhertz]

Getting laid boosts my self esteem more than anything else, but I guess it's different for women.

All too many of them go that route. it's not good.

Self esteem should derive from bettering yourself, not from who wants your genitals closest to them.

[Potjeh]

What is better, though? You can't be your only point of reference, that way madness lies. Other people are like a mirror, and if they want to do you then it's safeish to assume your reflection is pretty.

[Tonkyhonk]

message me if you want to feel miserable

[Kaios]

there's only one way to get self-esteem

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BaEj59wXLDI

[Amanda44]

What is better, though? You can't be your only point of reference, that way madness lies. Other people are like a mirror, and if they want to do you then it's safeish to assume your reflection is pretty.

Yes, it is flattering when people find you attractive and when they want to 'do' you, but it doesn't mean you have to force their hand or let them, it's much more flattering when people love you, want the best for you and treat you with respect - and still want to 'do' you.

Painhertz is right, it's the end result of that route that is the problem.

Women tie emotions in with intimacy on a stronger scale than men do, the majority of young women aren't just looking for sexual relief, they want the whole package, boyfriend, love, wedding, babies. With all the raging hormones and insecurities, young women can often be mislead and persuaded to flaunt their sexuality and have sex for a smile as a way of achieving that goal.
What they are not taught is the reality of what will happen when they do. If a woman projects herself first and foremost as a sexual object then that is how men (and others) will treat her. They won't have any real desire for her as a person, they won't want to love and respect her, she can look forward to a life full of empty flatteries, failed relationships, lowering self esteem, std's and if she's not careful, single parenthood.
Very few men want to settle down and raise a family with a woman who acts/is percieved in that way, but they would have no problems with having sex with her.

It's a trust and respect issue.

This ultimately leaves the woman feeling worthless and surprisingly, undesired, which then turns into a vicious circle of her using her sex to gain attention and the use of her sex being the reason she will end up being rejected.

I wouldn't encourage that life for anyone.

[Tonkyhonk]

there's only one way to get self-esteem

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BaEj59wXLDI

lol south park staff should take wendy to korea in the next episode to show how people celebrate you for having operations done and she will find that photoshop isnt really a big deal (or just a start).

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you should realize, amanda, that some people cant be convinced untill they face it, some even dont get it later either and wonder why they have shitty lives. this is actually a good example of "karma", where you cant get out of the loop

@potjeh,
sorry to hear that you dont get laid that often with your enormous peen that should reach every gal on earth!

[sabinati]

i'm 22 and i have sex with hot babes all the time

[jordancoles]

i'm 22 and i have sex with hot babes all the time

Wow, you've really stepped up your game since last year