Lets put a face to the names.

[Daji]

i'm 22 and i have sex with hot babes all the time

Sounds the same for execpt I'm still 16 :3

[TeckXKnight]

I too am 16.

[sabinati]

i'm 22 and i have sex with hot babes all the time

Wow, you've really stepped up your game since last year

i learned to stop being a virgin using this one weird old tip: http://youtu.be/vRGMAW1wzQ8

[Eemerald]

What is better, though? You can't be your only point of reference, that way madness lies. Other people are like a mirror, and if they want to do you then it's safeish to assume your reflection is pretty.

Yes, it is flattering when people find you attractive and when they want to 'do' you, but it doesn't mean you have to force their hand or let them, it's much more flattering when people love you, want the best for you and treat you with respect - and still want to 'do' you.

Painhertz is right, it's the end result of that route that is the problem.

Women tie emotions in with intimacy on a stronger scale than men do, the majority of young women aren't just looking for sexual relief, they want the whole package, boyfriend, love, wedding, babies. With all the raging hormones and insecurities, young women can often be mislead and persuaded to flaunt their sexuality and have sex for a smile as a way of achieving that goal.
What they are not taught is the reality of what will happen when they do. If a woman projects herself first and foremost as a sexual object then that is how men (and others) will treat her. They won't have any real desire for her as a person, they won't want to love and respect her, she can look forward to a life full of empty flatteries, failed relationships, lowering self esteem, std's and if she's not careful, single parenthood.
Very few men want to settle down and raise a family with a woman who acts/is percieved in that way, but they would have no problems with having sex with her.

It's a trust and respect issue.

This ultimately leaves the woman feeling worthless and surprisingly, undesired, which then turns into a vicious circle of her using her sex to gain attention and the use of her sex being the reason she will end up being rejected.

I wouldn't encourage that life for anyone.

There is much more emotional connection, but does depend on the woman and probably her age. I think the older you get, and the more understanding and appreciation you have for yourself and your body, and ur understanding of men (that the majority are dicks:P/half joking...) you actually don't always want to tie it to too much emotion, you can sometimes separate it, within reason. but yeah I agree, you can't project yourself in one way then expect people to respect you for other things about you after.

[Eemerald]

not to sound like a boring old fart, which i'm sure this will come across as, but trying to boost self esteem this way from a bunch of guys who really don't care about anything beyond those pictures of you showing some breasts might seem nice initially, but it's certainly not a lasting one, and you will always get those dicks who will use it to destroy whatever self esteem you do have.

There are lots of avenues to go through to build self esteem, understand yourself, find something to help you with confidence, letting go of some of theshit inyour life, and so on and on. And if you don't know how to go about this, and just want some pointers, then message me.

this isn't to say, don't share pics, but I hate to see it done when women want it for a self esteem boost to a group of people who really don't care for them.

old fart pep talk over/

The glorious leader disagrees with this: moral-boosting through attention whoring is best moral-boosting method.

Baylife and brolove.

I am the glorious leader and I disagree with your disagreements!

[Eemerald]

What is better, though? You can't be your only point of reference, that way madness lies. Other people are like a mirror, and if they want to do you then it's safeish to assume your reflection is pretty.

That maybe true for a man, since it takes a lot for a woman to choose to just have sex with a guy normally.
but honestly, I could be the ugliest woman in a bar, and if I was easy I could get myself laid with ease. Most men aren't fussy, and a little alcohol can do wonders to perception. so really, getting laid for a woman doesn't mean anything in terms of how she's seen by others.

and what is wrong with being your point of reference? i'm sure you have family, friends, colleagues from work, peers from school or college, people you meet in general, who will give you points of reference too. and it doesn't need to be about appearance, it could be about personality, the way you come across, what kind of friend you are etc etc. but it's so important to actually know yourself too, the rest is just pointers from people you interact with which help with knowing more about yourself, but in the end you need to know who you are as a person, and feel comfortable with that, cause although you can change some things, there's things you simply can't.

I feel i'm giving counselling sessions here...

[Fobia]

not to sound like a boring old fart, which i'm sure this will come across as, but trying to boost self esteem this way from a bunch of guys who really don't care about anything beyond those pictures of you showing some breasts might seem nice initially, but it's certainly not a lasting one, and you will always get those dicks who will use it to destroy whatever self esteem you do have.

There are lots of avenues to go through to build self esteem, understand yourself, find something to help you with confidence, letting go of some of theshit inyour life, and so on and on. And if you don't know how to go about this, and just want some pointers, then message me.

this isn't to say, don't share pics, but I hate to see it done when women want it for a self esteem boost to a group of people who really don't care for them.

old fart pep talk over/

The glorious leader disagrees with this: moral-boosting through attention whoring is best moral-boosting method.

Baylife and brolove.

I am the glorious leader and I disagree with your disagreements!

If you're the glorious leader who have I been following all these years? Was all a lie? :<<<<<<<

Baylife and sisterlove.

[HasseKebab]

I too am 16.

So, you've been moderating the forums since you where what? 14 years old

[popfor]

i'm 22 and i have sex with hot babes all the time

Wow, you've really stepped up your game since last year

i learned to stop being a virgin using this one weird old tip: http://youtu.be/vRGMAW1wzQ8

does that mean my signature is now useless? i was hoping you would be the next 40 year old virgin. swaginati nvr4get php lose virgin 2 man rippitty rip rip gg

@Hasse I've been playing this game since I was 11 years old :s 15 atm


lastly, tits lady, this forum sucks dick. You'd have better chances feeling better on 4chan. tits or gtfo

[Vouss]

wow this thread stinks of jealous bitches