but men are potential rapists thoughpyrale wrote:Yes, I do blame them. You should look at the numbers, it's not like every single soldier goes for a rape on the first girl they see, in modern armies.
Also, was I not to blame them, I would certainly blame their education, their trainers or their lax command. That's the difference between trying to solve a problem and saying "All men are potential rapists, we can't help it, prepare your vagina".

well, anyways, its great that you are so confident. i just hope everyone gets good educations soon enough so we have no wars to suffer from.
well, its great that you feel many problems are solved. i dont.You're talking about all the problems in Europe and in the states. Do you want to know why some of them and many others were solved ? Because some people stood up and said "No matter how, this has to change".
http://www.refworld.org/cgi-bin/texis/vtx/rwmain?page=country&category=&publisher=&type=&coi=JPN&rid=4562d8cf2&docid=4a4214b0c&skip=0
I'm not giving the link as a definite proof, but as the result of a shallow inquiry by myself, merely to refute your "all is well in japanese brothels". Again, I would be very interested in knowing more about the conditions of work for this business in Japan and I have no set idea about it, but when it comes to the social origin of prostitutes in japan, I would be very surprised if I learnt it was different from anywhere else.
fyi, i did not say "all is well" but i dont blame you for not reading every post i made in this thread. ofc im not friends with all girls in sex industry, and there probably are many forced victims too as you want to believe. what i said is "forced" ones are minority as of late, and whoever entered the industry on their own will should know better what is waiting for them. i myself have tried to talk to some girls, but most of the time their greed wins. if you decide to get paid by taking off your own clothes, staying in a small room naked with a man(or men) alone, i would not like to call that "forced". those who intentionally enter the industry are trying to use the industry or men as their tool for money. (now this is different from "wearing sexy outfits means rape me sign". "looks like seducing" and "intentionally seducing" are different. also, just because i said this, i am not saying we should give up "education", nor im saying its fair enough. i am trying to be realistic here.)Many foreign and Japanese women initially enter the sex industry voluntarily, only to find themselves victims of involuntary servitude.
again, i did not deny the problems lying behind prostitutions and its industry, as i keep on saying that i personally do not agree, which you seem to skip reading. (but i did say there is a point.)But simply denying there's a problem and encouraging people to support such an industry is certainly not going to solve anything.