If I understand you correctly, you seem to believe that there is no such thing as the justified expansion of a state by force of arms. You believe that this principle, if upheld in international affairs, would lead, on the whole, to more peaceful human relations. I do not agree with this. I believe that there are many historical cases where we, in hindsight, have very little alternative to recognizing the spoils of a conquest by force, as legitimized retrospectively, simply because it is the de facto status.
Let us assume for a moment that I were to agree with you. The events leading up to the Palestinian exodus puts the Israeli state at fault for the expulsion of some parts of the Arab population, then what does the conclusion become? That the state of Israel should now, 60 years later, be dismantled, along with every city ever built on land formerly claimed by Arabs? Should the United States then perhaps also be dismantled, and her cities returned to the primitive wilderness that existed before the arrival of the white man to the New World? Why would we stop there? Why shouldn't the Roman Empire be resurrected? Or even the first Jewish Kingdom?
Perhaps you will now say: I do not want that, all I want is the right of return. But the return to what? The Arab houses and villages do not exist anymore. Should the Arabs, quite simply, be given the land, along with all the houses -- the Skyscrapers in Haifa -- that have been built upon it since? Do you not see how this would be an equally great injustice? To deny the work and labor of two generations, largely unconnected with the events of -48, who have lived in these areas since?
We must recognize that the right of return is equal to the destruction of the state of Israel, and the end of an open and proud Jewish presence in the Levant. Fluffy multiculturalisms aside, we must recgonize that the militant and determining forces on the Arab side of the conflict are hell bent on a second holocaust of the Jewish people -- Hamas, al Fatah, etc.. If the 'right of return' were to be enforced, Israel would die a demographic death (though I suspect it would be bloodier than that expression quite conveys). You can not uphold the idea of the right to return under the false banner of neutrality and non-recognition of the conflict's ethnic dimension, simply because that denies one of the major externalities of any enforcement of that 'right'. The reason I talk about the origins of Zionism is not necessarily because I believe that Zionism is a justified ideology. I do not feel the need to have an opinion about that, and whatever my conclusion would be, it would be just that: An opinion. The reason I talk about it is so as to make it abundantly clear what the perspective of the Jewish nation is. Regardless of whether it is true or not: Israel perceives herself as fighting for the survival not just of the nation, but of the Jewish people.
I sympathize with Israel largely on account of her qualities. The nation and state of Israel is a (relatively) secular, democratic and tolerant society that allows for the freedom of worship, freedom of speech and, for lack of better word, the pursuit of happiness. There is not under the sun one Arab state that shares those qualities, and I strongly doubt that wheel-chair
Saruman and his ilk would be the guys to bring that about. Do the motive ideologies of the Arabs not disturb you in the slightest? Do you deny, for example, that Hamas is a fascist organization? My opinion is that Israel has proven her right to exist by fighting for, and winning it. Undoing that would be an act of aggression. I would have a great deal more sympathy for the Arab cause, were it not represented by people who believe that the use of force is the
only way to settle a conflict, because I emphatically disagree with that proposition.
But I do recognize that that it is one way of doing it.