MooCow wrote:[...]do you believe that 24 hour siege is good for the players[...]
Does it really make the game better for people[...].
The siege of Aurora was the /entire/ reason I started playing. Even when I was a helpless hermit just hearing about people getting FUCKED made the world feel alive/interesting/motivated me to keep playing.
The reality of conflict/human nature is that when things aren't going somebody's way they will look for excuses to cope.
This man wanted to play with my group explicitly to fuck with people, but when
my group ended up trying to siege/fight them this world he went on the forum along with several of his other villagers and requested siege/PVP be removed from the game.

This sounds like a huge criticism of this guy specifically, but It's just human nature. You see this exact same shit every world from 50%+ of fighters who play the game exclusively to fight. You cannot trust people's emotional reaction to losing.
A majority of the people who complain about haven being too brutal only ever made their account because they liked the idea of haven being brutal. It's the one draw the game has that sets it apart from the 1,000 other sandbox farming games, and I guarantee you those same people complaining things are too brutal will leave for another game if it stops being brutal.