More recently, we met our nearest neighbour to the south. He's a really high-level guy who has a village and lots of claimed land there, though the village is only populated by his three accounts (all of whom are really much higher level than any of us). He seems pretty friendly and has donated us some boar hides and meat (and he knows my HS). However, he's recently asked us if we want to join his village, on slightly odd terms. He seems to want us to be village members but without actually having a participatory "village" to any real extent i.e. we carry on living at our camp and don't do any village things. And he doesn't want us using his teleportery kit when we get high-level enough to do so.
So we're not really sure what to do. On the one hand he's muuuuch higher level than us and tbh we can benefit even by using scraps of stuff he doesn't need. On the other, we're not sure about becoming members of a practically defunct "village" rather than building up and getting our own which we can then have proper control of ourselves rather than letting a guy who clearly doesn't need us or need to hear our opinions much do the deciding on anything. For that matter we're not wholly sure why he wants 3 noobs in his village when he's not even requiring us to do anything. Oh, and since he can kill bears and I can't deal with a fox we're not too sure abotu doing anything that might annoy him either.

So, fellow hearthlings, what would you advise?