Well, this is frustrating. The last time I tried this server code, it crashed within hours on a double-free bug. Now I've been running for three days with ASan and it hasn't showed up.
I really doubt it, but perhaps some of the other fixes along the way permuted the bug away or something. I'm going to try to run it without ASan again and see what happens. I really doubt ASan could "mask" the real bug here, but I'm kind of running out of other ideas.
