Jalpha wrote:Ysh wrote: Jalpha wrote:This kind of bothers me because I feel entitled to that information. I feel the dataset is my property, it's a snapshot of me, a frozen moment in time of who I am. I have no control or even knowledge of where this information goes and what is done with it. My permission was never asked. It makes me feel like some unwitting labrat and it's a sensation I am not comfortable with.
Debatable. If you go to restaurant and fill out comment card for waitress, do you complain they have your information now? I think maybe not.
The difference being highlighted above. It's a shady practice to hide demands for the acceptance of policies and not make them clear and apparent. Very few sites do this.
Shady practice indeed. I think it can be argue though that you implicit consent by visit the site at all. And in many case, explicit consent with click ''I accept'' on terms of service box.
Jalpha wrote:Ysh wrote:Jalpha wrote:Am I over-reacting or is this as out of control as I think?
Maybe overreact slightly. I think there is no issue with it on some moral/ethical type basis. But I do think it is unfortunate that this is the current reality. Problem is this is current reality because most people are having no issues to it. If you are correct that this is a very not good thing, eventual the men will decide that this will go on no longer and stop use data collecting site. And if the men never get burned badly enough to stop? Maybe it was not a problem thing to beginning with.
I think again it's likely more an issue of awareness. If you don't know who is taking the data, where it's going and what it's being used for then how can you even formulate an effective argument against it. If people actually knew more maybe they would object. Should not this tracking at least be more transparent and less secretive?
Maybe they will object, maybe they will not. I know men who are aware and do not care. I know men who are aware and are happy they are being tracked. I am not sure how much of it is really big secret. Obviously you know of it, yes?
Jalpha wrote:Ysh wrote:Jalpha wrote:I mean from what I can tell the whole area is largely unregulated.
I could see some arguing for and against this one. I think in general it is best to err on side of freedom for the men.
Whose freedom, mine or theirs. By the very act of having my actions observed I have had my freedom impinged upon.
Both you and them are men and are deserving of freedoms. If you do not want to be observed, do not visit the private websites of these men. No one is forcing you to go to them.
Jalpha wrote:Ysh wrote:Jalpha wrote:Additionally if my information is being used by someone for profit, am I not entitled to some portion of that profit myself?
I think probable no.
It's not that I expect any notable returns but it seems wrong for such a parasitic relationship to exist. I effectively receive nothing while someone else profits simply from watching me.
When was last time you pay for news paper? How often do you watch free video on some site like YouTube? Use free email service? It go on and on. I get an amazing amount of service and content for ''free'' on internet. Free is in quote, because I do pay -- just not in money. But do not act as if you gain nothing from this monitoring. The fact that just watching you action is profitable is what does support the myriad of free service you and I can enjoy on internet.
Jalpha wrote:If I followed you around on the streets while you did your shopping and went to work, taking notes recording your actions and even what you looked at in the shop window, would you then object? How about if I then sold that information to other people who were interested?
This analogy is slight different. Obvious there is some personal risk from the men knowing my personal location. It is also much easy to connect these data point with my individual person. Internet tracking does not convey this in as personal a way. Physical stalking is more dangerous than cyberweb stalking. That being said, I would rather no men in this world know what I am doing. But I can not live my life without going into public. Not easy anyway. This is just the price of it.