I tend to hermit or join a group but the problem with the latter is that at times I can only put a couple hours a day while everyone else seems to live on the game and end up behind my fellow villagers and since my stats aren't great I stop since I cant really do much part from landscaping. I'll end up dropping the game for a couple months come back as a hermit but after sometime I just log on for chores. I think the issue is that people just get bored or start finding the game to tedious to progress In. The game isn't really advertised I only found the game through dwarf fortress forums years ago.
I do enjoy the game but each world I find myself sticking around less and less maybe because I've never really done the pvp side of it I do not know.
I wonder what would happen if the game ever goes onto steam, would a bunch of kids flood in and shout bloody murdered as they get murdered by animals or pvpers and just quit or would the game find some new life and have new elements brought in to help the flood of new players learn and play.
I feel like the game may go like legacy being seemly abandoned for a couple years and then brought back to life, maybe the devs need people working and developing with them but I highly doubt that will happen.