rye130 wrote:whiskeypete wrote:Pretty pathetic... asserting the dominance of a group of botting no-lifers over some casual loners. Do you drown kittens when you aren't playing HNH? Beat up little children in the playground?
This isn't bitterness speaking, just an observation. It would take a very insecure and pathetic person to derive pleasure from exploiting such a massive power imbalance.
I think you are missing the key difference between this game and real life. This is a game. People beat up prositutes in Grand Theft Auto and no one expects that they must do it in real life too.
The difference being that the prostitute is an NPC and the people hurt here are actual players who spent time and energy on what they accomplished. So in my opinion it does show a lack of empathy if people in this thread or the game in general do not seem to understand that. They can only have fun at the expense of someone elses feelings. I find that weird, but it seems to be a problem not just tied to games.
I guess those are actually two different factors so let me seperate them.
1. Lack of empathy: The inability to grasp the fact there is a real person sitting at the other end of that internet connection. It might be due to the anonymity of the internet (which then directly factors into number 2) or it might be a lack of the ability to reflect upon ones actions. The latter I would often attribute to the age of the average person playing online games though. So they might learn it in time I guess.
2. The inability to experience fun without hurting others. Well now that...actually is kind of disturbing. Again it might be caused to no small extent by the anonymity of the internet. It is noteworthy to realize though that not everyone is behaving like that. Actually a rather small but invested part of the playerbase (that is now the only part of the playerbase that has not quit, as usual) is. Would be an interesting topic to do some research on.
I guess there is a third point being mentioned here.
3. The game lacks a clear set of rules and since it is within the realm of possibilities to commit such actions why shouldn't I? I cannot really argue against that I guess, the two sides here just disagree on what rules should be common sense and in the end you just have to decide which side you choose. But then we are back to points 1 and 2 since those determine what kind of person I want to be in game.
Edit: Apxeolog just gave a perfect example of the inability to generate any empathy by answering to Avu's post. I am not sure if we have any psychology majors here, but I am actually curios to get some data on such occurences. Maybe someone has any references?