I chose to join one of my friends with a group of his friends and it went badly
these are the things that got me kicked out making a road in the wrong place accidentally turning boar meat into animal fat and sealing the corners of a palisade I didn't want anyone to grief us with our own Palisade
I thought those were no big deal cuz of all the other nice things I was doing for everyone why I'm suffering from the f****** flu
I made 5 tarkilns so they would have enough charcoal for metalworking I mind all the metal they needed I even built three of the smelters
I even terraform the land they were living on mostly by myself for 4 hours
the week I was with them I basically help them build 70% of their base
my one friend got me to join them got me out of there safely cuz they were plotting to kill me but at the end I wound up drowning my character cuz there was nowhere for me to go
when I'm active on this game hardcore I play from 12 to 16 hours on this game every day up to this point that's basically especially when I have friends to play with cuz I like helping them I thought everything was going well I'm going to try to recover from the flu then I'll jump back into the game again