I'll take your word for it. If you're being genuine I can at least offer you some advice, if it would be of any help.
The battering ram drying time is shortened significantly when the power level of a claim is still building up to 100%, so for example if a battering ram normally takes 24 hours to build up its charge level before it can start being used on palisade walls, a claim at 10% power level would instead only require 2.4 hours (24hrs*0.10power lvl). This is the reason why your fresh claims end up destroyed so quickly even though they may have survived the initial 8 hour activation period.
It's pointless to keep building walls on the claim when someone is actively breaking them, you should instead start placing multiple over different locations and hopefully at least one of them will have the chance to build up to 100% power level. Building walls will still be difficult because it will take 72 hours for Palisade to become fully soaked making it relatively easy for someone to come along in that three day period and hand bash them down, but at least if you get a claim up to full power level you know you'll have a full day to ram check and they may not even bother with the ram at that point anyways. Brimstone is finite and it takes time to regenerate, you can usually beat it out with persistence.
Also, if you haven't done so then try and take some time to focus on Ancestral Worship quests. In particular you'll want to save numen points for the Plot Boost prayer which allows you to boost a claim's power level. Each plot boost raises a claim's maximum power level by 50%, and these boosts are permanent up to 300% and temporary beyond that point. The first plot boost costs 3 numen and goes up in cost by 2 each time. I'm not certain if you actually need to have an ancestor for that or not, but building the Ancestral Shrine is how you start the quests.
