This forum is for recruitment/requests for people to live together. Might be worth trying out the collection of hermits whateverbay place. Certainly would be lots of people to meet, although it would definitely be chaotic.
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Whatever Bay isn't that chaotic - the odd raid, maybe, and the surrounding area can be somewhat dangerous while certain players are online, but otherwise pretty nice people.