Among other reasons, they were the PvP focus of the game since I dislike PvP; Find it just to be a way to troll people and never EVER seen "friendly pvp" despite some people mentioning it....and the lack of truly friendly individuals. To be friendly, you don't have to be helpful IMO. However, you have to be, well, friendly. Not just rush you to do stuff but actually say "hello" "how are you" and actually care about whatever happens to you.
Most people I've seen in the game so far, were people that either care about their stuff, or the village progress, or even safety. But I've never found a single individual yet that 1. Lives in a safe area, or at least doesn't get raided often due to treaties or whatever reason; 2. Is truly friendly as explained above; 3. Does not try to progress ASAP due to fear of dying. I mean, it's fine to want progress, but when that makes you be unfriendly to other people, IMO that's not cool.
So what I'm looking for is a very friendly individual which used common sense when finding a place or didn't find a place yet. It doesn't matter if you live in a shack or a fortress as long as you're friendly enough and not afraid enough of dying to become unfriendly.
After all, while this game is about surviving, death is a factor that exists for a reason. I think people should not jump towards death, but they should not stop enjoying the game due to fear of dying.
At any rate, hope to find a few friendly enough people with this post.
Take care, and enjoy the game for what it is
